Thank you for teaching me the art of being patient. For
building a foundation of a friendship and showing me how it’s important to get
to know someone in the beginning. As a woman I’ve been taught to pounce onto
anyone who shows interest even if in my gut I know this isn’t what is best for
me. It’s still interest though, right?
My life is a constant slew of, “Are you dating?”, “How do
you not have a boyfriend?”, “It’s a shame you’re still single.” This bugs me.
Yes, I cannot wait to find someone to share life with. To
sit on the floor and laugh with until 2:00am, to make mundane errands be fun,
and to support, love, and be faithful with. This does not in turn mean I have
to settle for anything that comes my way just because it is there.
I’ve always given more in relationships than I probably
should have. I do not regret this. My goal in life is to make the ones around
me feel loved; if that’s what I left you with, my job is done. Although, I’m worthy of love and effort
as well and you, without loving me, showed me just that.
I deserve someone who is going to look at me as though I’m
magic. You didn’t do that and for the first time in my life, I realized that
was okay. Just because you didn’t look at me like that does not mean someone
won’t in my future. You taught me to choose myself instead of choosing another
relationship where I carry all of the weight because I’m 23 and if I’m not in
love, how shameful.
I am in love. I am in love with figuring out the best way to
love myself. I have so much to offer this world and the people in it. You taught
me, by the way you didn't act around me, the way I want a man to act around me.
Please know this is no fault of your own and you never let me down, I hope you
know this. I just wasn’t your magic and you let me realize how I didn’t have to
force every slight interest in my life to be my magic.
Thank you for giving me the chance to empower myself. To be
a woman who loves herself just as much as she loves those around her.
Maybe in another lifetime you and I were together and it
worked. We could have been something so beautiful; I firmly believe that about
us. In this lifetime, though, we did do something beautiful; we were able to
choose ourselves, which is the start to everything.
Thank you for being the man who did not choose me. Thank you
for being the man who let me go and probably will not think twice about doing
so. Thank you for choosing yourself and showing me that it is okay for me to
choose myself as well. We both deserve something that is greater than
ourselves; we deserve magic. I pray you find yours because you are someone who
is so worth being abundantly and fiercely loved. I know my magic is out there
and I thank you for letting me go in order to find it.
I loved this post and the rawness with which you are inviting magic into your life. So many things in your piece resonate and I cherish the way you so beautifully welcome all that is beautiful and divine to flow through your heart. Connect with me! illuminatingpeace@gmail.com
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